Regret after selling my company – requesting thoughts and ideas

Regret after selling my company – requesting thoughts and ideas

Regret, Reflection, and Next Steps After an Acquired Exit

This is a difficult topic to share, but I’m aiming to offer a thoughtful, constructive perspective for others who may face a similar crossroads. I recently exited a company I co-founded with a close partner, an achievement I’m proud of, and I’ve spent the last few years processing what happened, what I learned, and how to move forward. Below is a concise retelling of the journey, followed by the lessons I’ve drawn and the questions I’m seeking input on from the community.

About the journey

  • Early days and growth (2011–2018): I bootstrapped a transportation business with an environmental focus alongside a co-founder. Revenue grew steadily year over year: roughly 10k in 2011, 30k in 2012, then 100k, 200k, 320k, 380k, 540k, and 630k by 2018. Profitability was reinvested to sustain growth, and we drew minimal cash for personal living expenses.
  • Attempted buyout and pivot: I considered purchasing my 50/50 partner’s stake, but we couldn’t agree on terms. With a technical inclination and a desire to shift away from running a logistics operation, I decided to pivot toward software-enabled ventures.
  • Sale and new venture: We found a high-net-worth buyer, who agreed to purchase for 290k cash/debt-free plus a 200k earnout over 2.5 years if revenue grew about 20% year over year. The buyer, Tom, also encouraged me to join as a partner in the acquiring company, granting me 35% equity and a 60k annual salary. The acquisition was structured with the purchase debt earning 12.5% interest, and I became President, responsible for day-to-day operations.
  • Early expansion and pressure points: Shortly before deal closing, a competitor expressed interest in being acquired, and I supported that move with roughly 35k of my sale proceeds, effectively increasing the buyer’s debt. By 2019, the combined entity was roughly 900k in annual revenue (including the acquired business).
  • Post-close tensions and adjustments: Within a month, the earnout target was altered because much of the growth had been driven by the competitor acquisition. My partner and I accepted the change, though we felt it wasn’t fully fair given the buyer’s implied role in funding growth.
  • A rocky trajectory and attempts at remediation: Six months in, Tom issued a 2/5 performance rating, proposed a demotion to head of sales, and converted debt to a convertible note. I rejected this, believing it undervalued my contributions and failed to address earlier concerns. Over the next year, I led a sizable upgrade of the company with guidance from Tom and others, and revenues rose to about 1.6–2 million annually. Yet Tom issued another negative performance review, offered to buy my share for 350k in capital contributions (without expressed terms for extracting funds from the business), and restructured my role and equity with a 4-year vesting restart. I again rejected this, feeling my value was being eroded.
  • Separation and settlement: We agreed to part ways, and I accepted a 120k cash buyout for my 35% stake. Tom floated a post-exit, part-time consultant role that never materialized. About five days after the deal closed, Tom claimed I had materially failed the company and renegotiated my buyout, arguing for a price closer to zero. I pursued legal action and settled for roughly 95k out of 120k, with the partner’s and my final earnout delayed due to COVID. Legal fees totaled around 55k. By 2022, Tom’s company had raised a substantial Series A at a multi-million valuation, with significant revenue and healthy profitability.

What I’ve done since

  • Technical pivot and product development: In 2021, I taught myself to code and built two revenue-generating products as a solo developer, contributing roughly 10k in annual recurring revenue across ventures.
  • Education and network expansion: I completed a top-20 MBA to sharpen my skills and broaden my network, which I believe has been worthwhile for pursuing a bigger, sustainable company.
  • New venture and current traction: I secured a 500k pre-seed investment to launch a business-to-business SaaS. The product is live, with about 15 customers and around 8k in ARR, growing by roughly 500 dollars of ARR every few months. I’ve pushed sales since mid-2023, building on an initial customer base established during my MBA period. However, progress has been slower than hoped, and I’m concerned that the product may be too bespoke rather than a scalable, repeatable platform. I see several potentially high-impact opportunities, but securing them remains uncertain.

Current challenge and questions for the community

  • The core dilemma: It’s been four years since exiting the prior company, and I have not yet built a sustainable, scalable business at the next level. I carry a mix of pride, regret, and lessons learned, and I’m seeking guidance on next steps to accelerate growth, reduce risk, and build a durable company.
  • Areas where I’d value input:
  • Product strategy: How can I ensure this new SaaS product scales beyond bespoke customizations? What approaches have helped others transition from bespoke builds to generalizable platforms?
  • Go-to-market and growth: Given the slow ARR ramp, what realistic strategies exist to accelerate customer acquisition and reduce average-time-to-value?
  • Capital and structure: How should I structure equity, board governance, and investor relations to avoid the management-centric pitfalls I experienced previously?
  • Personal leadership and resilience: What practices help founders recover from difficult exits and maintain focus on building the next venture?
  • Risk management: What red flags should I watch for in early-stage ventures to prevent a repeat of the most challenging aspects of my last journey?

Closing thoughts

I’m committed to entrepreneurship and to building my next company into a meaningful, scalable success. It’s been four years since my exit, and I’m still learning, iterating, and seeking the right guidance. If you’ve faced similar experiences or have ideas that could help me chart a clearer path forward, I’d be grateful for your perspectives and constructive feedback.

Thank you for taking the time to read and share your thoughts.

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